It’s not the intention to help that is bad. It’s what you do, to what extent you’re willing and the mindset of how big deal money is that makes everything wrong.
Money… it’s just paper with the power to change everyone’s minds. I’ve never imagined even you would go through this. That we will go through this too early. Yeah you might think i’m just saying money doesn’t matter because i grew up in a rich family. Maybe I was pampered with money and never get to experience financial crisis but my parents have always told us how it’s not the purpose of life and that we shouldn’t wrap our heads around it.
Don’t be too materialistic. Di masamang yumaman what’s wrong is you can’t let go of it and you tend to make it your life’s purpose.
Uuwi ka ng 1am enjoying all those money talks. ni pagsamba mo nga di ka makatagal ng isang oras ng hindi nabobored.
How you take risks for it, how you prioritise it, how you admire it, how you worship money, it’s just wrong.
Maybe all these things i’m trying to show you makes no sense to you because you’re too blinded thinking this is a good thing because you will help your parents with this. I understand you just want to help them, but not like this. Not going home in the morning, not lying to people, not being greedy about it, not being too possessed by money.
Uuwian mo nga sila ng pera, tss pero to what extent naman yung ginawa mo just to have it. In exchange to those thousands, you lost everything that’s good in you. Money’s steering you to the wrong direction, it promises you comfort and help for you parents pero di mo napapansin yung dinadaanan mo just to get there and what you’re missing because you’re too focused in it. You risk yourself, you don’t care even there’re a lot of people who would be worried sick for you, you lie and make excuses to me and maybe even to your parents, you’re being a slave to money you’re willing to do anything for it. You’re too attached, too focused to realise it doesn’t matter. Di mo na napapansin how important your education is, how much your parents would be happy mapag tapos ka lang, how it’s more important na sumamba ka, how it’s more important to do good. Oo, di mo naman pinapabayaan pag aaral mo, sumasamba ka pa din naman, mabuti ka pa din namang tao pero hindi yun yung pinaprioritize mo. And i’m telling you those are the things that truly matters.
When i become a parent, i’m going to teach my kids that money is not important. that being a good person matters more than being rich.
But i guess i can’t do that while you show them how OBSESSED you are about money.
Iniisip mo kasi makakatulong ka. Di excuse yun para maging masama kang tao, para mag pa alipin ka sa pera. I admire everyone’s will to help their parents pero it sucks that you need to be too obsessed about money. di ko kayang tumagal kasama mga tao puro pera lang iniisip. di ko kayang tagalang ganyan ka. magsawa ka sa makamundo mong buhay. ilang beses ko na inuulit sayo di ka nakikinig. just know that you’re missing way too much more in life than what you think you’re gaining.